Domestic Violence: Ek Samajik Mahamari aur Nyay ki Chunauti

Ek Vyapak Vishleshan: Khokhli Paramparaon se Arthik Azadi tak ka Safar

Hamare samaj mein ghar ko ek mandir mana jata hai, magar isi mandir ki chaukhat ke andar jab cheekhein dabaai jati hain, toh wo sirf ek aurat ki haar nahi, balki poore samaj ki shiksha aur sanskriti ki shikast hoti hai. Gharelu hinsa sirf ek kanooni jurm nahi hai, ye us vishvas ka qatl hai jis par ek parivaar tikka hota hai.

1. Pida ka Ehsas: Jab Ghar hi Pinjra Ban Jaye

Jo mahilaein aaj is dard se guzar rahi hain, unke liye "Domestic Violence" sirf ek shabd nahi, ek rozana ki zillat hai.

• Manasik Ghutan: Aksar maar-peet se zyada gehra zakhm wo baatein deti hain jo rozana aapke aatmasamman (self-respect) par vaar karti hain. "Tumhare baap ne diya hi kya hai?" ya "Tumhari aukat kya hai?"—ye shabd hinsa ki wo buniyaad hain jo dikhayi nahi detein magar andar se khokhla kar deti hain.
• Bachon par Asar: Jo bachcha bachpan mein apne pita ko maa par haath uthate dekhta hai, wo ya toh darr ko hi kanoon maan leta hai ya hinsa ko sahi manne lagta hai. Aap unhe ek "Broken Home" de rahi hain, "Happy Home" nahi.

2. Purushon ka Nazariya: Mardangi ya Mansik Gulaami?

Purushon ko ye samajhna hoga ki purani soch ke jaal ne unhe bhi utna hi nuksaan pahunchaya hai jitna mahilaon ko.

• Asli Mardangi kya hai? Kisi kamzor par haath uthana mardangi nahi, balki darr ka pratik hai. Asli mard wo hai jo apni patni ko ek saathi (partner) maane.
• Sahare ki Talash: Insaan ki fitrat hai sukoon dhundna. Agar aap apne ghar mein apni biwi ko dosti aur samman nahi denge, toh wo bhatakne par ya tootne par majboor ho jayegi. Rishta "Darr" se nahi "Dosti" se chalta hai.

3. Betiyon ka Naya Aakash: Shiksha se Vyapaar tak

Humein apni betiyon ko sirf "Paraya Dhan" samajh kar vida karne ki taiyari nahi karni chahiye.

• Vyapaar ki Azadi: Hamne sadiyon se betiyon ko naukri tak mahdood (limit) rakha hai. Ab waqt hai unhe business sikhane ka. Unhe bahar nikalne ka ek system chahiye jahan wo khul kar vyapaar kar sakein.
• Economic Shield: Jab beti apna vyapaar chalati hai aur ghar ki aadhi income ka zariya banti hai, toh pati aur sasural wale uspar haath uthane se pehle sau baar sochte hain.

4. Judicial System: Thakan aur Digital Chunautiyan

Ek vakil ke taur par, main system ki un kamzoriyon ko nazandaz nahi kar sakta jo nyay mein deri karti hain.

• Judicial Stress: Ek judge jo din mein 100 cases sun raha hai, uske liye har file ek sankhya (number) ban jati hai. Itne bojh ke beech unke liye har case ko wo samman aur bhavnatmak gehrai dena mushkil ho jata hai jo ek peedit mahila umeed karti hai.
• Digital Failure: Hum 5G ke zamane mein hain, magar infrastructure sath nahi de raha. Online hearing mein voice break hona aur internet ki kami ki wajah se insaaf ki awaaz kahin dab jati hai.

5. China se Seekh: Vishwaguru ya Sirf Naare?

Hum aadikal se Vishwaguru hone ka dhol peet rahe hain, magar hum kanooni aur samajik dhanchon mein khokhlay ho chuke hain. Humein China jaise deshon se unka work culture aur unki mahilaon ki arthik bhagidari seekhni chahiye. Jab tak hamari aadhi abadi sirf chulhe-chauke tak rahengi, tab tak hum kabhi asli Vishwaguru nahi ban payenge.

6. Mera Maksad aur Aapki Zimmedari

Main garv se kehta hoon ki meri parvarish mere mata-pita ne kadi mehnat aur tanghaali ke dino mein bhi bohot samman ke saath ki hai. Unhone apni zindagi ki punji mujh par isliye kharch ki taaki main kisi ka sahara ban sakun. Unki us mehnat ka karz main tabhi utaar paunga jab main is kanooni peshe ke zariye kisi ek ghar ko tootne se bacha sakun ya kisi ek beti ko uski azadi dila sakun.

Ye post sirf padhne ke liye nahi hai, ye ek sawal hai aapke zameer se. Badlav ki shuruat adalat se nahi, aapke ghar ki rasoi aur aapke baithak (living room) se hoti hai.

Kanooni Sahayata: Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA 2005) ke Pramukh Pravdhan

Agar aap hinsa ka shikar hain, toh kanoon aapke saath hai:

• Section 12: Magistrate ke samne relief ke liye application.
• Section 17: Right to reside in a shared household (Sajha ghar mein rehne ka adhikaar).
• Section 18: Protection Orders (Hinsa rokne ka adesh).
• Section 19: Residence Orders (Rehne ki vyavastha).
• Section 20: Monetary Relief (Kharcha aur nuksaan ki bharpai).
• Section 23 (Interim Relief): Ye sabse mahatvapurn hai. Iske tahat Magistrate case ke final faisle se pehle hi mahila ko turant guzara bhatta (maintenance) ya suraksha dilwa sakte hain, taaki wo muqadme ke dauran bhookhi na rahe.

FAQ: Aksar Pooche Jane Wale Sawal

1. Sawal: Kya Domestic Violence mein sirf maar-peet aati hai? Jawab: Nahi, sharirik, manasik, arthik aur yaun (sexual) shoshan sab isme shamil hain.
2. Sawal: Kya main apne pati ke ghar mein reh sakti hoon agar wo mujhe nikal raha ho? Jawab: Haan, Section 17 ke tahat aapko us ghar mein rehne ka kanooni adhikaar hai.
3. Sawal: Case karne ke liye kitna kharcha aata hai? Jawab: PWDVA ek welfare act hai. Sarkari vakil ya legal aid ke zariye ye muft bhi ho sakta hai.
4. Sawal: Kya sirf patni hi case kar sakti hai? Jawab: Har wo mahila jo kisi purush ke saath "Domestic Relationship" mein rahi hai (beti, behen, maa, ya live-in partner) case kar sakti hai.
5. Sawal: Interim Relief (Section 23) kya hai? Jawab: Case shuru hote hi turant milne wali kanooni madad ya kharcha.
6. Sawal: Agar pati court ka order na maane toh? Jawab: Order na manna ek apradh hai, jisme jail aur jurmana dono ho sakte hain.
7. Sawal: Kya purane cases mein bhi DV Act lag sakta hai? Jawab: Haan, hinsa purani ho tab bhi aap madad le sakti hain agar asar abhi bhi hai.
8. Sawal: Kya main apne bachon ki custody maang sakti hoon? Jawab: Haan, Section 21 ke tahat bachon ki temporary custody mil sakti hai.
9. Sawal: Case kitne din mein khatam hota hai? Jawab: Kanoon ke hisaab se 60 din mein, magar judicial load ki wajah se waqt lag sakta hai.
10. Sawal: Kya bina vakil ke bhi shikayat darj ho sakti hai? Jawab: Haan, aap Protection Officer ya seedhe Magistrate se mil sakti hain.
11. Sawal: Kya daku-dahej (Dowry) ki maang bhi isme aati hai? Jawab: Bilkul, ye manasik aur arthik hinsa ka bada hissa hai.
12. Sawal: Kya sasural wale bhi isme party bante hain? Jawab: Haan, agar wo hinsa mein shamil hain toh unpar bhi case ho sakta hai.
13. Sawal: Online hearing kaise hoti hai? Jawab: Court dwara diye gaye link ke zariye aap ghar baithe video call se pesh ho sakti hain.
14. Sawal: Kya hinsa ki report likhvane ke baad ghar lautna surakshit hai? Jawab: Court se "Protection Order" lene ke baad police aapki suraksha ki zimmedari leti hai.
15. Sawal: Main dar rahi hoon, kya meri pehchan gupt rahegi? Jawab: Court ki karvayi "In-camera" (band kamre mein) karne ki gujarish ki ja sakti hai.

Satyamev Jayate.

Advocate Javed Ahmad Enrolment No: D/2417/2007 Office: Chamber No. D-522(B), Fifth Floor, Karkardooma Court, Shahdara, Delhi-110032 Mobile: 9289925377